Oscars to all the Great Pretenders

Oscars to all the Great Pretenders

How deep does DENIAL of the TRUTH go?  Eventually it cultivates an ability to bypass reality and exist on what is perceived as wishful thinking…. or is it survival?  For the sake of the children - For the sake of financial implications - For the sake of the parents - For the sake of the society -  For the sake of work/career - For the sake of …..?

      The price of pretending seems awfully high. It requires being in a constant state of STRESS and ANXIETY and is a sure recipe for ILLNESS.  Maintaining a constant state of FEAR manifests in FURY AND ANGER.   Emotionally and Spiritually you die a slow death until you seize to exist and instead become a SHELL of who you are meant to be. The real YOU cannot exist in this space.

     There are no winners in THE GAME OF THE GREAT PRETENTER, only LOOSERS.  Everyone loses – the children, the parents, the friends and MOST IMPORTANTLY by keeping up the PRETENCE you will have to give up on YOU!

God did not make a mistake when he created you.  YOU are meant to be YOU!

    Dan Millman said: “If you don’t get what you want, you suffer; if you get what you don’t want, you suffer; even when you get exactly what you want, you still suffer because you can’t hold on to it forever.  Your mind is your predicament.  It wants to be free of change.  Free of pain, free of the obligations of life and death, but change is law, and no amount of PRENTENDING will alter that reality.”