Thursday, 19 September 2013

Digging for God 13 September 2013

Digging for God         10 September 2013
This time of year, most of us get the ‘green fingers’ inspiration.  To nurture seeds or seedlings, see them grow and eventually be rewarded with flowers or fruit/vegetables, is certainly worth-while.  My mother is a gardening specialist/fanatic.  She spends every possible moment in the garden. At almost 78, she injures herself all the time, as she chooses to ignore her physical limitations! Growing up, she was almost an absent parent, as she landscaped a barren Highveld property into a virtual park.  Today I understand that she found refuge in her garden, in difficult times. Twenty years or so later, they moved to the Bushveld, where she has systematically created another paradise.  Plants are moved and grouped and re-planted and moved again.  Compost heaps are created and the vegetable garden is always in full production.  Gardening, for her, is a therapy as well as a spiritual experience, where she communes with God.  My father, having given up understanding this ‘addiction to gardening’ says my mother is not happy unless she is standing head down with her fingers in the soil. I have heard it referred to as: “digging for God”.  Nature facilitates and enhances the closeness to all creation.  Some people find it on long walks in the mountains or on the beach, but this is not easily accessible here on the Highveld. When last did you take of your shoes and feel the grass under your feet?  When last did you dig into the soil with your bare hands? Try lying down in your garden on a blanket and just look at the clouds changing in the sky. Make time - even if it means sitting under a tree…..listening…..closing your eyes for a few seconds…… take a deep breath…..it is relaxing, de-stressing, and energizing!
Karin Engman    072 1896951     thehummingbird@vodamail.co.za
Laleli Motivational Speaking and Life Coach    www.karin-engman.blogspot.com3

Faith and Trust 20 September 2013

Faith and Trust   20th September 2013
What a special day this is – my mother turns 77 today – and what is even more amazing, is that my husband’s mother also turns 77 today!  They say there is no such thing as a coincidence……………..  What I so admire about my mother, is that she lives in absolute Faith and Trust.  First to do what you need to do and can do, then hand over the rest to God. This is truly a valuable gift that will stay with me forever.  God bless you on your birthday Ma!  Like the story of a pastor who bought a beautifully embroidered table cloth at a street market, to hide some rain damage in his church. He meets an old lady, who just missed her bus and since it was snowing, he offers that she waits for the next bus in the church. As he opens up the table cloth the old lady recognizes it, and confirms it by the initials she embroidered in the corner. She made this table cloth before the second world war.  She tells the pastor that her husband was arrested and taken away during the war, and that she never saw him again.  The pastor offers the table cloth to her, but she declines.  He drives her home as a token of appreciation.  At a service a few weeks later, an old man approaches the pastor after the service and asks him where he found the table cloth, as it looks just like something his wife made.  Confirming this by the initials, he talks about how he has not managed to find his wife after the war….. this is a true story! Coincidence or guided by the Grace of God?   “So when the road you’re travelling, seems difficult at best – do your part as best you can and God will do the rest”.
Karin Engman    072 1896951    thehummingbird@vodamail.co.za
Laleli Motivational speaking and Life Coach    www.karin-engman.blogspot.com

Saturday, 7 September 2013

The frolicking Elephant 6 September 2013

The frolicking Elephant
A video post on Facebook caught my attention this week. An animal sanctuary, located near a beach somewhere in Africa, took a baby elephant for his first encounter with the ocean.  The why and the how we’ll set aside for now.  The little elephant hesitantly walks closer to the gentle breaking waves and takes a few careful steps into the water before turning around and walking onto the beach again. Then, as though he makes a decision, he turns, RUNS and launches himself into the surf – stands up and then ‘dives down ‘ - again and again and again – then rolls around in the waves with only his trunk sticking out.  The pure abandonment of pleasure was clear to see!  He stands  up and throws himself down again into the wave as though he was trying to body surf. At the end he was getting rather daring, diving in head first and intended or not – making a “head stand”!  I laughed out loud – it was simply delightful!                                                                                                                       It encouraged me to look at my challenging situation, as though seeing it for the first time. Abandoning the fear of the unknown and simply playing in the surf! Sometimes we get overwhelmed with fear of the “what if” and “what will the people say”.  By stepping out of the fear of imagined future possible scenarios – let us rather summons our bravery and frolic in the waves.  It is infectious – it is revitalizing – it is re-energizing! With fresh courage and a new ZEST for life – we may just do the impossible!
Karin Engman              Laleli Motivational Speaking and Life Coach          072 1896951
thehummingbird@vodamail.co.za       www.karin-engman.blogspot.com

Sunday, 1 September 2013

Butterflies 31 August 2013


Butterflies    August 2013
Everyday life – doing the same thing day after day – especially at this time of year , can be like living in a cocoon.   With the promise of Spring, fresh green leaves shooting all around, it seems like a good time to revitalize the spirit.  Make some changes, renew your efforts to make life better. Many creatures in nature hibernate in the winter – as should we, take quiet time – reflection time.  With the change of season and the hope of Spring in the air, it is time to rise and shine!  We need to open our awareness, and with fresh intention look at ourselves and at the world around us.  Do something a little bit different today,  break the routine of same old same old! Look at things from a different perspective. Be willing to consider a different point of view.  Just like the butterfly emerging from the cocoon, step into your world, with all your God given splendour - with new hope – and feel the joire de vivre!  The joy of Life – die huppel in jou stap!

Friday, 23 August 2013

Just for Today

JUST FOR TODAY -   August 2013
Being in the SUMMER of my life, at the age of 51, my sense is that in the WINTER of our life the view is very different. Yes, there is the Autumn to prepare for Winter, yet the changes of the seasons of life are surprisingly quick. Life does not come with any guarantees. There will have been disappointments as well as failures - there will also have been celebrations and successes. The only certainty in life is: God willing, if we are privileged, we all grow old.   When the time has come, where you look mostly to what HAS BEEN instead of what is to come – and our physical body has (as my father says) run out of spare parts – we need to be brave and strong.  To grow old gracefully, I believe, is one of life’s greatest challenges. To get through the hardest journey in life, we need to take only one step at a time – but we MUST keep on stepping! Each one of us is a unique God’s creation. That YOU is ageless. Regardless of the season you are currently in. We all need to live in acceptance of what has been and what is now. The art of living in the NOW….. this is when you really KNOW that you are alive…..this is when you feel that JOY to be alive!!!! Only then are we able to see the gift of being alive…..  Just for today – let me notice that I am still me – regardless of what my body has become. My soul is ageless – my spirit can soar and sing and dance and fly…..if I choose this today! Just for today!
Karin Engman    Laleli Holistic Life Coach and Motivational Speaker    072 1896951


Thursday, 1 August 2013

New Beginnings 2 August 2013

New Beginnings        2 August 2013
A blank canvass – clean brushes, fresh palette and  a rainbow of colours    is how I felt when I received the link to a video today: “the best coin I ever spent”.  The setting is a large square in a city in Europe. A cello player dressed in suit and bow tie stand motionless with his hat on the floor.  A young girl walks towards him and places a coin in the hat.  He starts playing.  Soon another violinist joins him and plays, then another three and more and more until a full orchestra is playing.  The crowd starts gathering and enjoying the music until suddenly the crowd turns into a massive choir that sings in magnificent harmony.  The hair on my arms stood straight up and tears welled up in my eyes at the sheer beauty of this sound.  As we each make the decision to join a co-operation in uplifting the human spirit – together we can be awe inspiring.  It requires individuals (you and me) with a common intention to produce a community that lifts the spirit!
Karin Engman    072 1896951     
Laleli Holistic          Motivational Speaker and Life Coach
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Leadership 30 July 2013

Leadership   30 July 2013
Each one of us, in perhaps smaller capacity, will be in a position of leadership during his/her life time.  Leadership comes with responsibility and opportunity to bring HOPE. 
As a parent or in a position of teaching, we have the opportunity to cultivate good leadership. The future lies in the hands of the children.  By example we lead but with guidance we teach!
A great leader will have a strong relationship with God and a healthy relationship with him/herself. It requires letting go of the bitterness of the past, to find the sweetness of Spirit.  Here we find a deep sense of peace and optimism as a new light is born out of the circumstances of the past. Like little streams that gather into a river, each one of us can guide and lead our own family, our own community and contribute to a great country.  Each one of us in our small way contributes toward the greater good of all. You are either part of the solution or part of the problem.
A worthy leader is a person with qualities of integrity. A person people look up to and admire. It requires strength and conviction without the expectation of glory. Many of us have developed, through life circumstances, a resistance to authority. With the loss of respect of leaders of the past and present it is time to break the EGO mould and find hope within ourselves as a starting point.  
Find out who you are and be brave enough to be that person, that soul that God has put on this earth. God has created each one of us with gifts and potential. Live your Truth and be at peace with who you are and the rest will come.     
Karin Engman     Life Coach and Motivational Speaker    082 7246985
thehummingbird@vodamail.co.za   www.karin-engman.blogspot.com